or, so goes my story--
Gifts from a Farm
I did not grow up on a farm. It wouldn't have suited me at all, despite the fact that my dad grew up on a farm and made his living as a farm loan manager and rural appraiser and my mother grew up with chickens and a couple of cows in a rural small town. No, farm boys have to get up very early to do chores, drink raw milk, shovel really nasty stuff, and work on dirty machinery. Besides, farm work is dangerous. Believe me, I know.
One of my mother's three brothers had a farm near the teeny, tiny town of McCune in far southeastern Kansas. A couple times a year, we would make the two-hundred-mile journey by car to pay a visit. One of my cousins was a boy close to my age. The other male child, Richard, was eight years older than I. He had contracted spinal meningitis when he was about ten years old and nearly died. It left him mentally disabled, though physically OK. He dropped out of school at about age 14 and later got work as a farm and ranch hand. The only time I can recall that he stayed overnight at our house in Hutchinson was when he was on his way to Wyoming or Montana to work on a ranch. He was about 20 and I was 12.
I recall my mother being upset because she had learned from her brother or sister-in-law that Richard was in the habit of sleeping "in the altogether", which seems an odd expression for sleeping in nothing at all. I remember being somewhat titillated by the thought of lying next to a naked boy, cousin or not. To my disappointment, I soon found out that he would be sleeping on an Army cot at the foot of my bed.
On one of our visits to the farm, I and a couple of my cousins went on an egg-collecting excursion to the hay loft above the shed where machinery were stored and the corn was husked. This required that one go up a ladder and through a hole in the floor of the loft that measured about 2 feet by 2 feet. Bales of hay were stacked to within a foot or so of the opening on three sides. This made getting down from the loft more than a little tricky. Although I prided myself on being a pretty good climber and not especially afraid of heights, I found my attempt to make the transition gracefully woefully lacking. I slipped and soon was falling feet-first, arms straight up in the air through the opening toward the hard floor 12' below. As luck would have it, a horizontal wooden beam crossed the space directly below the opening in such a way that my body missed it but my out-stretched fingers were perfectly positioned to reflexively close on it as I passed by. There I dangled, feet swinging two feet above the ground. Lucky me!
Luck did not seem to play such an active role in the life of Bobby, the cousin just a few months younger than I, especially when it came to fire and modes of transportation. When Bobby was old enough to own a car, he had been using gasoline to clean off his engine. When he finished, he started the engine. There was a back-fire through the carburetor that set the engine on fire. Much damage was done.
Not too long after that, he and my uncle were burning stubble in a field. Bobby accidentally splashed gasoline on his legs. His pants caught fire and he was badly burned. The final calamity came when we were both about 16. He had been riding his motorcycle when a driver ran a stop sign and he hit her broadside. His head hit the car's roof where the pillar behind the driver's door joins it. He died instantly. We drove down for the funeral. I had taken a suit from my closet to wear for the occasion. When we arrived at the chapel, I discovered that there were no pants hanging under the jacket. I had to remain in the car during the service. It was one of the worst goofs of my life.
My point in writing all this, I guess, is to provide an opportunity to thank all those Americans who till the soil, shovel the dung, shoe the horses, milk the cows, and get up at dawn every day so that I have what I need to survive. It troubles me to think that the days of the family farm are rapidly fading away but along with them the great risk those families took each and every day--truly a gift to all of us from a farm.
© May 11, 2015
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