Wednesday, October 8, 2014

A Love Affair with Clio by Nicholas


According to Greek mythology, Clio, the muse of history, is the daughter of Zeus and Memory. She guides mortals in the art of contemplating their pasts.

History happens in the present, not in the past; it’s an interaction of the present and the past. History makes the past knowable. We are sequestered in history, prisoners of our pasts, but while we are bound to it, history liberates us from the past.

I wrote those words while in a doctoral program in history back in the 1970s. I find them still to be true though I’ve lost all involvement with academic life. I find them real on a personal level now.

When I finally decided to embrace my sexuality and came out, shortly after I left academics, I saw that as entering my history. Coming out was a getting into. Not only was I facing my own personal past and its hold on my present, I was joining an on-going experience of countless people before me. I was now a member of some vague thing called “gay history.” It was bigger than me but also something I lived each small minute of each day. What went on long before I came onto the scene suddenly was relevant to what I might do, the dilemmas I would face, the opportunities I would have, the choices I would make. Being gay is my entry point. It is my entry point to real life, happiness, community and history.

I love history. I believe William Faulkner was right when he said, “History is not the dead hand of the past. It’s not dead. Hell, it’s not even past.” I loved studying history and always felt that the more I knew about it, the more I knew about me.

When I was younger—college age and in my 20s—I very much felt a part of another kind of history. Everybody did back then even without knowing it. We were a massive movement to expand civil rights, end poverty, explore new ways of relating to god and man and woman, and end a war that as unjust as it was unjustified. Because of what we, a generation, did, the world was changing. It was not my one voice but a generation’s, a culture’s. We were history. Win or lose, we were making history.

The knowing of history and the living of it was in some way to be in control of it. I had a sense of impact on something much larger than me.

I’m not sure about that anymore. I don’t doubt history and its force in shaping the present and future. And I don’t doubt that knowing history empowers me in living my daily life. But as I age, I increasingly get the feeling that history is simply passing me by. History passes up everybody, of course, and every generation sees its dreams and accomplishments fade like a vaporous cloud on a summer day.

Some I don’t care about—pop culture, for example, is too superficial to worry about. Some I just think what fools people are not to keep what is now dismissed as old-fashioned—like speaking and writing in full sentences. We say we value communication but seem unable to communicate with all our devices. New ways are not always better ways—as some old fart once said.

But sometimes I get anxious that if I don’t climb onto whatever bandwagon is going by today, I will be lost in some cobwebby existence of nostalgia, just me and Clio, my imaginary friend. I fear a day, for example, when all life and all connections will depend on an i-phone or something like it. Will I be friendless because I’m not on Facebook? As I’m writing this piece, my home phone is out of order and I feel as though I am marooned on an ice floe in the Arctic. Totally cut off.

History, I believe, is best met on a mundane level. It might be global climate change but I will see it in my withering tomato plants that just can’t cope with day after day of super-hot temperatures. That mundane level is usually where history is lived.


© Sep 2012

About the Author 

Nicholas grew up in Cleveland, then grew up in San Francisco, and is now growing up in Denver. He retired from work with non-profits in 2009 and now bicycles, gardens, cooks, does yoga, writes stories, and loves to go out for coffee.

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