Tuesday, June 14, 2016

Jealousy, by Will Stanton


I'm not sure that I ever have experienced real jealousy in my whole life.  Based upon the correct definition of the concept, jealousy requires a degree of bitterness and covetousness to the point that the jealous person would be content to take away from someone else whatever he desires to take.  Apparently, I wasn't born nasty enough to harbor such feelings.
 
Envy is a different matter, a feeling that is not healthful, yet, at the same time, is not so potentially harmful as jealousy.  One can envy the positive attributes that someone is born with or acquires, but without wishing to deprive the fortunate person from his attributes.

I, like most people, have fallen prey to envy.  This is especially true when I encounter someone who is quite healthy, young, attractive, athletic, and who has accomplished feats not granted to me.  I certainly have envied the superlative concert pianists their hands and skills, lamenting that I was given “feet for hands.”  Yet, I would rather address a much lighter topic, one that is rather more unusual; and that is being able to travel the world and learn from it.

I benefited greatly from my two trips to Europe, one when I was a child, and one when I was a young adult.  Unfortunately, I have not been back, yet those two experiences broadened my mind and provided me with the insight to view people and events more realistically than many people do who stay mired in their limited experiences.  Mark Twain is famous for saying (and I agree with him), “Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness; and many of our people need it sorely on these accounts.  Broad, wholesome, charitable views of men and things cannot be acquired by vegetating in one little corner of the earth all one's lifetime.”

So, how advantageous it would be for a person to not only have the opportunity to travel extensively throughout the world, but, also, to begin doing so very young.  Well, I know of two such little boys, Nathan and Seamus. 

Nathan
Seamus
Some time ago watching Public Television, I stumbled upon an informative and charming program called “Travel with Kids.”  It features a young couple, Jeremy and Carrie, who have traveled the world together for twenty years, not staying in fancy hotels, but, instead, sometimes backpacking and exploring areas off the beaten path and away from most touristy locales.  Having their first baby, Nathan, did not prevent their continuing their travels, nor did the birth of their second son Seamus.  Instead, they have turned their love of travel into a profitable travel program and an opportunity to provide their little boys with wondrous sights of diverse peoples and cultures.

Those bright little kids have, for eight years, been adsorbing experiences and knowledge like sponges.  Their parents take them to fascinating museums, many of them interactive, where they can explore for themselves local flora and fauna.  They interact with local guides and townspeople, learning about history, arts and crafts, language, and traditions.  They taste regional cuisine, learn to try and enjoy dishes new and different to them.  Continually excited by their adventures, they often reveal a surprising degree of acquired knowledge by speaking to the camera, explaining quite well what they have learned.

And, the extent of their travels and experiences is amazing.  Apparently, they have traveled through South Korea, Venice, the Caribbean, Victoria Falls, Naples, Thailand, South Africa, Latin America, South Pacific, Ireland, France, Vietnam, England, Scotland, Bahamas, Belize, Greece, Kenya, China, Jamaica, Egypt, Yucatan, Spain, Mexico, Fiji, French Polynesia, Curacao, Tahiti, and Bora Bora.  I might have missed some. 

I never have quite figured out how this family crams so much travel into annual schedules that must, somehow, include schooling for the two boys.  Yet, I must say that what they have learned in their travels is an astonishing supplement to their formal schooling.  Yes, I also must say that I rather envy their wonderful opportunities provided by their parents.

You recall the Mark Twain's quotation I mentioned before.  These two kids must be the most broadminded kids in the world.  And, what a dramatic contrast to the school-teacher I met who said something like, “I'm not interested in traveling.  Everything in America is bigger and better than anywhere else.”  I just can imagine how this woman thinks about anything outside her own tiny experience.  I also can imagine how she votes, which is typical of the terrible social and political problems plaguing our poor nation.

So, Nathan and Seamus, I hope your rare and wonderful opportunity to travel so extensively contributes to your becoming wise and empathetic adults.  May your insight and wisdom help you both to make positive contributions to our world.

© 16 Dec 2015 

About the Author 


I have had a life-long fascination with people and their life stories.  I also realize that, although my own life has not brought me particular fame or fortune, I too have had some noteworthy experiences and, at times, unusual ones.  Since I joined this Story Time group, I have derived pleasure and satisfaction participating in the group.  I do put some thought and effort into my stories, and I hope that you find them interesting.

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