Friday, June 24, 2016

Slippery Sexualities, by Will Stanton


When it comes to sexuality, both Mother Nature and many humans have a peculiar way of dealing with it.  Starting with non-human animals, there are several creatures that display surprising characteristics.

For example, male mourning-cuttlefish actually display male or female physical characteristics depending upon which cuttlefish are beside them.  Males can appear to be male on one side and female on the other when next to another male.  The other male thinks he’s seeing two females but no rival male.  Clown anemonefish all start out life as male.  If the female dies, the dominant male can change sex and become female.  Another male will become the dominant male.  Parrotfish start out as male or female but have sex organs of both sexes.  They are protogynous hermaphrodites, meaning they can change from female to male.

Human beings' screwing with the environment is causing some unexpected and potentially serious problems among the animal kingdom.  A common pesticide called atrazine has been found to induce sexual changes in frogs. The pesticide affects the frogs' production of estrogen, transforming males into successfully reproductive females. Scientists are working to find exactly how atrazine causes this change, since it could become an issue with other animals as well.  Maybe that accounts for, when I am attending adult swim, my seeing so many man-boobs.

Complete hermaphroditic humans are very rare, although perhaps one baby in 2000 is born with some degree of intersex characteristics.  Sometimes the organs of one gender are visible on the outside of the body, whereas the opposite gender organs are inside.  Some medical researchers believe that the famous Joan of Arc was, in fact, an intersex male.

By now, most people are fairly familiar with gender reassignment for those individuals whose psychological and emotional nature are at odds with their physical forms.  Currently, a surprising number of people choose surgery to approximate the opposite gender.

What is hard to explain, however, is that there are a small number of males, including here in America, who have a psycho-sexual compulsion to have themselves castrated.  If any behavior can fit into the category of “slippery sexuality,” I think this might be.

Of course, that is the perfect segue to the Far-Eastern tradition of Hijra, sometimes known as “the third sex,” and otherwise recognized as eunuchs.  India, with its ancient culture and religions, is so complex that one would have to be a scholar to even begin to understand that part of the world.  In India, the hermaphrodite, the homosexual, and the transvestite have a symbolic value and are considered privileged beings.  Ample examples of this are found in Indian religion, mythology, and folklore, which are replete with traditional religious narratives such as in the Mahabharata, and the Vedas in the Puranas.

For example, Ardhanarishvara, "The Lord whose half is a woman," is said to have been created by the merging of the god Shiva and his consort Parvati.  This form of Shiva is said to represent the "totality that lies beyond duality."  A similar merger occurs between the beauty-and-prosperity goddess Lakshmi and her husband Vishnu, forming the hermaphrotitic or androgynous Lakshmi-Narayana.

Consequently, and for hundreds of years, literally millions of young boys and men have chosen to totally emasculate themselves in rather lengthy, traditional ceremonies in order to dress and to live as the opposite gender - - an extremely bizarre phenomenon to us here in the West but quite common in India, Pakistan, Thailand, and, to some extent, Singapore.


Real Hijra
Hijra Illustration
Mid-Eastern cultures have had similar polysexual myths.  And of course, Greek culture includes the god Hermaphroditus.  Actual intersex individuals were considered to be special.


Hermaphroditus


Mr. Horsley's first girlfriend.
Apparently, sexual compulsion is so irresistible in some people that they sometimes engage in peculiar sexual aberrations that might be described as “slippery sexuality.”    Bestiality, having sex with animals, is one example.  I spoke once about Republican Congressman Neal Horsley.  He is the man who, among other things, called for the arrest and imprisonment of all homosexuals.  I assume that he felt that sex among same-gender persons is disgusting.  He admitted, however, in an interview with Alan Colmes on the Fox News Radio, to having engaged in sex with a mule.  He tried to excuse his behavior by stating, “When you grow up on a farm in Georgia, your first girlfriend is a mule.”  In an attempt to prove to his constituents, however, that he really is a decent man, he quickly went on to say that Jesus had forgiven him and cleansed him of his “sin.”   How convenient.


Then there was that young Georgia redneck who became so drunk one night that he pulled his car over at a pumpkin patch and was arrested for copulating with a pumpkin.  That sounds pretty slippery.  He was taken to court, but most of the charges were dropped because the judge and whole courtroom broke out laughing when the arresting officer related the incident.  She testified that she had approached the defendant and asked, “What are you doing with that pumpkin?” whereupon he responded, “Oh shit!  Is it midnight already?”  This story was not made up.  It actually happened!

Well, I've arrived at this point only to realize that I have barely begun to mention human urges that may be regarded by some as “slippery sexualities,” such as sadomasochism, bondage, necrophilia, compulsive onanism, hebephelia, ephebephilia, and even the opposite of the desire to have sex, genophobia, the fear of having sexual relations.  Maybe I will write about these later.  As it is, I already am becoming confused by all of this.

© 9 January 2016 

About the Author 

I have had a life-long fascination with people and their life stories.  I also realize that, although my own life has not brought me particular fame or fortune, I too have had some noteworthy experiences and, at times, unusual ones.  Since I joined this Story Time group, I have derived pleasure and satisfaction participating in the group.  I do put some thought and effort into my stories, and I hope that you find them interesting.

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