Friday, June 28, 2013

No Good Will Come of It by Michael King


I don’t think that statement, title or subject is true. My philosophy is very different. I think that given the really, really big picture that good comes from all things, all disasters, all terrorist activities to name enough to get a few raised eyebrows and a few smirks. In all the happenings including the most horrific, there will be those whose lives will have been changed or redirected thus having the potential to influence others with the growth promotion and maturity that comes with life changing experiences. Good has a way of accompanying all experience. Humans can profit from others’ experiences.

Now from a narrow perspective, as the mortals on this planet have such a long way to go to actualize the idealism that might resemble the potentials of a perfect world, we see evil and iniquity, graft and corruption, lies and propaganda, dirty politics and corrupt corporations, vice and prejudice, hatred and subjugation; I could go on. From this perspective there is great difficulty to see where good can or will come of these kinds of effects on people’s lives.

We seem to think that the victims of this world are deprived of something. They are, however in the larger picture, there is only good. There is only the eventual achievement of perfection.

And I will define the perfection that I am talking about. I was an art therapist at a residential treatment center for asthmatics and had as many as 110 kids doing arts and crafts at any given time. One day the kids were working with clay, this is probably the best therapeutic tools for hand-eye coordination an area where many asthmatics as children didn’t develop as other kids did. In child development in which I had much training, this deficiency is very common with childhood asthma.  Using clay to create an image of one’s desire is the challenge.  This was a very successful program of which I am very proud. The results were life changing for those residents. As I observed a room full of kids working with clay to achieve an imagined result there was total silence. I saw that every child was in a state of perfection relative to his or her ability and capability to visualize and each of them was totally focused on the desired result. That was a moment that brought about a major revelation in my life. Perfection is relative.

I know that it may take an eternity to understand that there is only good, only truth, only love, only beauty, therefore as we have a challenging experience or see the reports of disasters, etc. I have to see that in the long run eventually only good exists and only for the growth potential that is the purpose of all experience.


So you now see why only good will comes of it. I am not without having had numerous disastrous and greatly challenging experiences. I only see the goodness, the truth, the beauty and the superficial ugliness around me. I see those who struggle without hope. You see reports of disasters on almost a daily basis.  No good will come of it is a pessimistic and unrealistic way to look at things when a much higher and more optimistic opportunity is staring us in our face. I now have only good in my life. Where I came from was quite the opposite and so were my confused beliefs.  Previously I never thought any good would come out of it when I was totally devastated. That happens but it is always temporary. Right now is the opportunity to be the most positive and to claim superb self-respect, the secret of maturity, happiness and maturation. In all situations good will always come of it, we need only to view from that perspective and develop that outlook. Our experiences will then have a depth and meaning that expands our consciousness, enrichens our lives and gives meaning to existence. 

© 6 May 2013


About the Author


I go by the drag name, Queen Anne Tique. My real name is Michael King. I am a gay activist who finally came out of the closet at age 70. I live with my lover, Merlyn, in downtown Denver, Colorado. I was married twice, have 3 daughters, 5 grandchildren and a great grandson. Besides volunteering at the GLBT Center and doing the SAGE activities," Telling your Story"," Men's Coffee" and the "Open Art Studio". I am active in Prime Timers and Front Rangers. I now get to do many of the activities that I had hoped to do when I retired; traveling, writing, painting, doing sculpture, cooking and drag.


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